Grade 4 Hebrew Teacher, Eliana Light, reflects on Grade 4 Havdalah.

The amazing thing about Jewish ritual is, after 2000 years of development and practice, after doing the same thing year after year, and week after week, there is still new meaning to be found. The ritual of Havdalah is one that I have loved ever since I was a kid: the sights, the smells, the songs. But this past Saturday night, as I stood in a circle with the students of the fourth grade class, I experienced a different Havdalah than I ever have. These kids had spent over a month learning, talking about, and immersing themselves in a ritual that they did not know before. We discussed the concept of “separation,” and how that brings holiness into our lives. We learned about the different ritual objects–  the kiddush cup for wine, the braided candle, and the spices– and the prayers we say over each.  And we learned how to sing the beautiful Debbie Friedman tune, that perfectly conveys the beauty of Shabbat, the melancholy of leaving it, and the hope of a week to come. After an opening niggun (wordless melody) taught by Jon, our music teacher, and some explanation by the teachers and a great story from Dena, the kids raised their voices in the words of Havdalah. With the lights off and the candles glowing, the joy in doing something new and well was reflected in their faces. At the end of the night, they took home two things that will hopefully become a part of their lives; a siddur that their parents decorated, and a Havdalah kit filled with homemade ritual items. My prayer is that the families of the 4th graders find joy and comfort in these items, and that they continue to strengthen their love of Judaism for years to come.
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